• On 9 December 2023
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• Categories: Relationships

Our Mirror-like partner

You are still looking for a similar type of partner, but still not the same. At first everything looks perfect, but not so much time to find the same mistakes that prevent you from making happy that the previous partner already had, you still can not understand what it consists of.

Most of all, do not blame yourself. This is due to the subconscious, which is programmed in the first 3 years of life and is often not able to influence consciously. If you are looking for the same inappropriate partner over and over again, try to focus on your relationship with your father and what your father\’s behavior patterns are. Your subconscious labels this behavior as an expression of love in the first years of life, and now subconsciously looks for it in your partner.

Therefore, even if you know with your head that some partner is not very suitable for you, your subconscious will send a signal that he is just the right person.
There are men on it anyway. If you find a partner and get to know their mother, you will find in her some subconscious putter of behavior that is also found in yourself, then looking back at your relationship with your partner and your relationship with your father, comparing them can get to the center of the problem.
For example, if your father could not show you emotions in his childhood, he would expect to find a partner who will cover you with admiration and flattery.

In the same way, if your father did not let you out of sight for days, you can not wait for a partner who will give you all the freedom you want.
Until you are able to solve your own subconscious programs and blocks from childhood, realize this setting and consciously handle it, you will probably still be looking for the same type of men. In some cases it is difficult to achieve, in others it is easy to see people who are not directly involved. Therefore, if you do not know the advice and do not want to turn directly to a specialist, someone from a friend or family member who knows their parents and, most likely, grew up with them will play the role
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